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Depending on the event, it might also be possible to put a modern twist on the classic black tie dress code, with subtle touches such as a patterned bow tie or a colourful (yet still refined) pocket square

Men can wear dark suits (think: your very best suit, preferably black and custom-tailored) instead of the tux that's required for actual black tie weddings

The blue and white beaded floral print serves us clean and classic elegance while the corset top, complete with plunging illusion neckline, adds a more sultry touch